A sensual massage can be a wonderful experience for both the person performing the massage and for the person on the receiving end. Whether the goal is stress-reduction or the massage is just one part of a romantic evening, a sensual massage can bring couples closer together and provide a quiet, intimate means of learning more about each other. Knowing how to give a sensual massage to men is an excellent way to bring a bit of romance into your life.
- Step 1
Set the mood by lighting candles, using aromatherapy, and playing relaxing music. To be effective, a sensual massage requires more than just a quick rub of the shoulders, neck or back. The entire experience matters as much as the physical act. Make sure you choose a location that is private and relaxing.
- Step 2
Place a sheet or towel on the bed or floor to protect surfaces from damage and stains caused by any oils used during the massage. Have your partner lie on his stomach.
- Step 3
Begin the sensual massage by using your fingers to massage your partner's scalp. Gently work your way around his head, using moderate pressure and small circular motions.
- Step 4
Mix your massage oil by selecting one or more scented oils, and adding them to a base of grape seed or vegetable oil. Sandalwood and lavender are generally well tolerated, and both provide a relaxing aroma.
- Step 5
Use the oil liberally, as the friction caused by dry
skinrubbing on dry skin can range from unpleasant to painful. If you are using essential oils during your massage, pay close attention to any developing redness, itching or other signs of allergic reaction.
- Step 6
Start at the head, and then move down to the neck, shoulders and back. Take your time, and watch for feedback from your partner. Feedback may be verbal or nonverbal. Technique is not as important during a sensual massage as during other types of massage.
- Step 7
Apply more or less pressure during your massage, depending on the response you are receiving. Slowly work your way down the body, being careful not to neglect any areas that may need attention. Massage in a downward motion to improve circulation.
- Step 8
Remember to massage both the front and back of your partner, having him turn over once you have fully massaged one side of his body.
- Step 9
Allow your partner to fall asleep. During a very relaxing massage, some men may find it very difficult to remain awake. If you have plans following the sensual massage, you can wake your partner after 20 minutes or so. ( By Sandra Ketcham, eHow Contributing Writer)
How to Give a Sensual Massage to Men
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